First Impression Counts (Job Interview)*
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Source: THE SUN – Thursday , February 19,2004.
Date published : 9.3.2004
Making an impact with another person, especially in the business world is
vital, writes Ranjit Singh Malhi
In today’s increasingly competitive business world, merely being
knowledgeable about your area of expertise is often inadequate to guarantee
success.
How others perceive you, that is, quality in perception can often determine
whether a business deal is won or lost; a career is made or destroyed; and
a promotion gained or denied.
In this regard, making a positive first impression is of great importance.
As aptly stated by Janet G. Elsea, “You never get a second chance to make a
good first impression.” Indeed, the first impression is often a lasting
one.
People will form an impression of you based on the way you think, dress,
speak and interact with them in the crucial first four minutes. Personal
appearance, grooming, body language, tone of voice, choice of words and
movement play a critical role in making a positive first impression.
Research shows that when meeting someone for the first time, how you say
something and what you look like when you say it are much more important
that the actual words spoken.
10 TIPS FOR MAKING A POSITIVE FIRST IMPRESSION
1. DEVELOP A POSITIVE SELF-IMAGE
To present yourself well to others, you must first develop a positive
self-image. Self-image is essentially your mental picture of who you are.
It should reflect self-confidence. Accept compliments with a “thank you”
and a smile. Love yourself and accept gracefully what you cannot change.
Also, visualise success in your career.
2.BE WELL-DRESSED
Ensure your clothes are well-fitting, clean and freshly pressed. Shoes
should be clean, polished and free of scuff. Ensure the colour of your
shoes and your socks matches the colour of your trousers.
For ladies, wear a well-cut dress in a good fabric, worn with a blazer or
well-fitting classic coordinates. Avoid slit skirts and plunging necklines.
Jewellery worn should be simple and elegant. Limit rings to one per hand.
Avoid extremely high-heeled shoes.
3. BE WELL-GROOMED
Ensure your hair is clean and free of dandruff; ears and finger nails are
clean; and breath is fresh. Perfume worn must be of good quality with light
fragrance. Women should avoid excessive makeup.
4. BE PUNCTUAL
Always be a few minutes early for appointments. If you are unavoidably
delayed, call and inform the other party before your appointment.
5. EXECUTE FIRM HANDSHAKE THAT GRABS RESPECT
When introducing yourself or being introduced to someone, give the other
person a firm handshake. Shake with the full arm, keeping the wrist and
elbow firm. Two pumps are enough.
6.MAKE YOUR FIRST FEW WORDS COUNT
An effective way of starting any interaction is to send a “thanks” message
that includes the person’s name. Remember, the sweetest thing to a person
is his or her name. Examples of “thanks” message are: “Thank you for taking
the time to meet with me this afternoon, Mr Bhaskaran” or “It is a pleasure
to finally meet you in person, Datuk Yahya.”
7. USE APPROPRIATE LANGUAGE
Also express appropriate facial expressions. Avoid using slang and words
such as “yeah” and “you guys”. Never curse! Be polite and tactful. Never
forget to say “please” and “thank you”. Use simple, familiar and precise
words. Smile in a friendly fashion. Maintain eye contact when speaking and
listening. Nod occasionally to show interest or acceptance.
8. BE A GOOD LISTENER
Don’t interrupt. It is rude to stop someone in the middle of a discourse.
Ask relevant questions to seek clarification. Focus on what is being said,
not on how it is being delivered.
9. SPEAK AUDIBLY AND CLEARLY
Ensure your voice is audible. Spend more time talking quickly than slowly,
especially if you are making a speech or presentation. Research shows that
faster speakers are regarded as more intelligent and more impressive than
slower speakers. Pronounce words correctly. Avoid verbal clutter such as
“um” and “ah”.
10. MAINTAIN A POWERFUL POSTURE
Stand up straight and keep your shoulders relaxed. Keep your head and chin
up with arms at your side. Never stand up with hands on your hips. When
sitting, keep your back straight and don’t slouch. Cross legs at ankles and
lean forward slightly. Don’t sit with knees spread or crossed.
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